I’ve been on every end of Valentine’s Day – in love, in unrequited love, broken-hearted, single & sexy, single & lonely and performing in a restaurant filled with couples trying desperately to have the most romantic evening of their lives. And collecting the cumulative experiences into one well-rounded observation, I conclude that there is one definitive attitude to have on Valentine’s Day. Be Yours.

Decide right now, no matter what your current relationship status is, that you will first and foremost ‘Be Your Valentine’ on February 14th. I will bet my bottom dollar (and I don’t like betting that), this mindset will change this holiday forever. And for the better. 

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Playlist One: Valentine's mix sexuelle
In my quest to squeeze sexy back into Valentine's Day, I created this mix.  What are your favorite sexy songs?

Playlist Two: L'amour Romantique Valentine

While I was on my mission of making Valentine's more sexy, my darn heart got in the way. The next thing I knew, I making a romantic playlist, too. Cie la vie! What are your favorite love songs?

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In celebration of how profound dance has enriched my life, each Thursday I post a GoddessLife Dance Video of the Week. Enjoy and keep dancing!

For upcoming Valentine's Day, this week I chose the most heavenly romantic dance performance I have ever seen. This dance number with Cyd Charisse and Gene Kelly is overshadowed by the many other famous scenes in the movie, "Singing in the Rain." You can wait a lifetime, but there will never be another dance performance like this: the veil, those legs, the chemistry, the emotion. Divine.

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"When you are dancing with your partner, you are in love with each other." - Frankie Manning

In celebration of how profound dance has enriched my life, each Thursday I post a GoddessLife Dance Video of the Week. Enjoy and keep dancing!

For upcoming Valentine's Day, this week I chose the most sensual, tantric, kama sutra, erotic couples dance performance I have ever seen. Make no mistake, these dancers are extraordinarily gifted and have technique in spades, but this performance is like watching 100 sex positions in 7 minutes. It is truly mind-blowing that this is from European SYTYCD (so be patient through the introduction). This is a performance not to be missed. Promise.

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