GoddessLife Blog


     I want to tell you how much you are needed. This blessed, abused and damaged earth; these people who walk on it with hearts closed in pain, judgement and dark thoughts of separation; the universe that is holding eternal visions of harmony, unity, peace and re-balance - all need you.

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  • Goddess Gatherings - Why they are Important

    Goddess Gatherings fulfill a very important need we have as women to honor all that is feminine within us. When we connect on this deep level, we become connected to the legacy of great women that have gathered together in supportive, positive and dynamic environments.

    My first Goddess Gathering took place when I was living in New York City almost by chance.


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  • Flirt!

    I am a huge flirt. I say this without apology. I pretty much flirt with every one. I flirt with anyone who makes me coffee, with DMV employees, when I dance, with guys, with my best girlfriend, with dogs, kittens, bunnies and babies, but most of all: I flirt with life. I may not have a traditional definition of flirting – but my techniques are extremely effective and I do adhere to strict flirting rules. To me, flirting is not about manipulation, having an agenda or being a home wrecker (I haven’t wrecked a single home!) As I see it, flirting is playful, it turns mundane moments into adventures and it’s my way of saying, “I want you closer.”

    Due to all my flirting research and years of teaching flirting in my Art of Seduction workshops, I am considered a world-renown flirting enthusiast (by moi). Through my studies, I have come believe there is an actual science to flirting. Because of this almost-proven fact, flirting is a skill that can be taught using the following modus operandi:

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  • Be Yours & Have the BEST Valentine's Day of your life!

    Decide right now, no matter what your current relationship status is, that you will first and foremost ‘Be Your Valentine’ on February 14th. I will bet my bottom :) this mindset will change this holiday forever. And for the better.

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  • Two Valentine's Day Music Playlists: Valentine's mix sexuelle and L'amour Romantique

    Dearest GoddessLife Sisterhood,

    In my quest to squeeze sexy back into Valentine's Day, I created this uber-sexy music playlist on Spotify. No romance. It's over 4 hours! Have fun xxx 

    Playlist One : Valentine's mix sexuelle

    What are your favorite sexy songs?

    While I was on my mission of making Valentine's more sexy, my darn heart got in the way. The next thing I knew, I making a romantic playlist, too. Cie la vie!

    Playlist Two: L'amour Romantique Valentine 

    What are your favorite love songs?

    What are your favorite sexy songs?

    While I was on my mission of making Valentine's more sexy, my darn heart got in the way. The next thing I knew, I making a romantic playlist, too. Cie la vie!

    Playlist Two: L'amour Romantique Valentine

    What are your favorite love songs?

  • Fall IN LOVE with Life this Valentine's Day and let's bring sexy back!

    While I was at my favorite coffee shop this morning, I meandered around the store looking at all the Valentine’s Day gifts they had for sale. What happened next was so utterly mystifying, that I let my café mocha become cold and had to order another. Let me first preface this with: I am a huge fan of gifts. If it’s wrapped in a bow, even an empty box is irresistible to me. This said, I was bewildered by the fact that I wouldn’t want to receive any of these things for sale at the coffee shop as presents for Valentine’s Day. Yes, they were so over-the-top saccharine sweet that I got a cavity just looking at them. But that’s what Valentine’s Day is all about. Or is it?


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  • Grow Wilder and Wiser

    There comes a day in every woman’s life, when Mother Nature herself stands behind us and wraps her arms around our shoulders, whispering “It’s time.” You have taken enough now. It’s time to stop growing up, stop growing older and start growing wiser – and wilder. There are adventures still waiting on you and this time, you will enjoy them with the vision of wisdom and the companionship of hindsight, and you will really let go.

    It’s time to stop the madness of comparison and conformity and start experiencing the joys that a life, free of containment and guilt, can bring. She will shake your shoulders gently and remind you that you’ve done your bit. You’ve given too much, cared too much, you’ve suffered too much. Worse, you’ve worn the chains and carried the weight of a burden far too heavy for your shoulders. “It’s time” she will say. Let it go, really let it go and feel the freedom of the fresh, clean spaces within you. Fill them with discovery, love and laughter. Fill yourself so full you will no longer fear what is ahead and instead you will greet each day with excitement. She will remind you that if you choose to stop caring what other people think of you and instead of caring what you think of you, that you will experience a new era of your life you never dreamed possible. ‘It’s time’ she will say…to write the ending, or new beginning, of your own story. 📝💓🤸‍♀️💥💫 

  • Love Everyone but never relinquish your Sword

    Love everyone but never relinquish your sword. Our culture has told us that being fierce, kickass and smart is not feminine. But these are sacred qualities of the Divine Feminine. You can be both fierce and soft. Both protective and nurturing. Both vulnerable and strong. Both spiritual and sexy. We as women can define what are the feminine qualities we possess within us. Because we all have a Goddess within us and are the human form of the Divine Feminine. Bless up sisters. 🌛🌝🌜

  • Rise Sisterhood Rise

    I'm feeling as though our culture is in desperate need for a revival of the sisterhood, the sacred woman circle. An environment through which we elevate each other, encourage and affirm each other, as women and as sisters. Call in all of your soul sisters and gather! When we come together as sisters, we invite the divine feminine, the ultimate creative force. If you are already gathering, I want to hear all about it: what do you do? dance? ritual? watch videos? shop? travel? discuss ideas? network? 💗🙏💟 Bless up sisters! 🌛🌝

  • Kintsukuroi - the art of becoming more beautiful for having been broken

    This is one of my favorite art forms. It speaks to me because in a society which throws the broken away, people and things, it reminds me of the beauty in things which have been mended in a way that does not hide faults, but emphasized the beauty in mending.
    I've been feeling fragile, my spine made of glass, broken in a million pieces. I've been in bed contemplating my upcoming surgery on my cervical spine. Actually terrified. 
    But with Kintsukuroi, instead of the break diminishing the bowl's appeal, the bowl has become more beautiful for having been broken. The true life of the bowl began the moment it was droppedThe proof of of its fragility and its resilience is what makes it beautiful.
    We all can be considered "broken" in some way. How we chose to repair ourselves is what matters most We all have struggles and scars. Let's celebrate them. It is what makes us more beautiful and valuable. Breakage and mending are honest parts of a past which should not be hidden. Your wounds and healing are a part of your history; a part of who you are. Every beautiful thing is damaged. You are that beauty; we all are. Let's honor our resilience. We are Kintsukuroi

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