GoddessLife Blog

  • Founding sisters - 10 Badass Women of the Revolutionary War

    “I desire you would remember the ladies”

    -March 31, 1776, Abigail Adams to her husband, John Adams

    As the Second Continental Congress was formed and debated the Declaration of Independence, Abigail began the argument in her letters to her husband that the creation of a new form of government was a chance to make the legal status of women equal to that of men.

    July 4th is “Mission Statement Day”. Thomas Jefferson wrote beautiful ideals in the Declaration of Independence, but we have not lived up to them. The words “We the people” did not include women, black and brown people nor Native Americans. Fortunately, The Constitution is a living document that can be edited. I feel the reckoning happening, we are standing up, organizing, demanding for our voices to be heard so that all Americans are considered equal.

    We always hear about the founding fathers, but who are the founding mothers? Founding Sisters as I like to call them. One of my passions is discovering women whose great achievements were overlooked or men to took the credit for and reclaiming them as my own personal sheroes. This independence day, I just had to find the Divine Feminine in the birth of The United States of America.

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  • Fall IN LOVE with Life this Valentine's Day and let's bring sexy back!

    While I was at my favorite coffee shop this morning, I meandered around the store looking at all the Valentine’s Day gifts they had for sale. What happened next was so utterly mystifying, that I let my café mocha become cold and had to order another. Let me first preface this with: I am a huge fan of gifts. If it’s wrapped in a bow, even an empty box is irresistible to me. This said, I was bewildered by the fact that I wouldn’t want to receive any of these things for sale at the coffee shop as presents for Valentine’s Day. Yes, they were so over-the-top saccharine sweet that I got a cavity just looking at them. But that’s what Valentine’s Day is all about. Or is it?


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  • Happy Galentine's Day!

    ❤️Happy Galentine’s Day! 💕

    Celebrating Galentine’s Day my favorite way ever: dancing The Goddess Workout Burlesque @lululemon with @kendrahmckay @myrahpenaloza @ella_bella_may @beckyconners 💋

    Let’s reclaim the glory days of ancient Rome, when Valentine’s Day was a joyous holiday for all Goddesses – married, maiden or virgin. It’s all about you learning to own and enjoy your sexuality. The things I teach in The Goddess Workout Cardio Burlesque will show you how to be IN LOVE WITH LIFE! The French call it ‘joie de vivre’ and let me tell you, nothing is more attractive. 💋

    The Goddess Workout Burlesque Video: 

    on youtube: https://goo.gl/2SxtYC 

    on Amazon: https://goo.gl/MjVth3 💗

  • Be Yours & Have the BEST Valentine's Day of your life!

    Decide right now, no matter what your current relationship status is, that you will first and foremost ‘Be Your Valentine’ on February 14th. I will bet my bottom :) this mindset will change this holiday forever. And for the better.

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  • Happy Goddesstine Day!

    That love song you have been singing .... perhaps you begin to realize that you are singing it to yourself. If you are waiting for someone to step in and brighten your world, know that humans are human, humans are temporary, transient. Light up your own life. Soften your face, know thyself, heal yourself and delight in the passions of your heart. Don't expect someone else to do it for you. The love song you can't get out of your mind, perhaps you have been singing it to yourself all along. Never forget you are the One who lights up your own life. 

    You are a Goddess. Happy Goddesstine Day! 💋 

  • Guilty Pleasures

    As my phone rang tonight, I found myself saying those nasty four little words, “ I really shouldn’t, but…”

    You see, I have a vintage pink rotary phone that’s cord only reaches the fake fur rug on the floor next to it.  To speak on the phone, I have to lie on the rug. It’s decadent in The Valley of the Dolls kind of way. I knew it was my best girlfriend calling and with all the work I had to do, I really shouldn’t have, but… I indulged in one of my favorite guilty pleasures and talked to my friend, on the rug (meaning, no multitasking) for two hours!

    Afterwards, I didn’t care how behind I was on my spreadsheets I was supposed to have prepared for tomorrow. “So what” I said to myself, I can stay up late, or get up early, or, even *gasp* not finish them.  Indulging in my guilty pleasure made me feel so bad, I felt good.

    We all have guilty pleasures – some that would embarrass us to admit – but should we feel compunction about them? If watching trashy TV shows, eating at fast food restaurants or googling your ex can bring us so much pleasure, then why should it create remorse?

    Isn’t it tiring trying to be perfect and to always do the right thing? Isn’t there something to be said for the occasional dash of depravity? There is! Not everything we do needs to be productive, lead to a cleaner house or the betterment of humanity. In actually, doing something for the sheer amusement of it is reason enough.

    So, go ahead, eat a gram or two of saturated fat, crank up that cheesy love ballad on your car radio and splurge on something ridiculously expensive.  And remember, sometimes, tabletops are for dancing.

  • Styles of Massage - the ultimate menu

    After I broke my leg last year, I have been obsessed with massage.  There are so many out there these days and new ones invented just to lure you in (those tricky spa manipulators). In honor of celebrating Valentine's Day: GoddessLife style, I decided to do some research. I had so much fun creating my own massage menu, I decided to share it with you. Please feel free to share with me your opinions on these massages and others you have had.

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  • Fervent Lingerie Collector…or…Panty Addiction?

    Would it surprise you that I own quite a few panties? Truth be told, I have an obscene amount of panties and bras, corsets, garters, teddies, babydolls, fishnets and sexy bedroom shoes. Lingerie is irresistible to me. It all started quite innocently at Victoria’s Secret (I affectionately call Vicky’s) and then I found Fredericks of Hollywood, Cosabella and La Perla.  Before I knew it, my problem was uncontrollable and I started tossing clothes out of my drawers to make rooms for…my new lacy drawers.

    The following is the result of what happens to a woman who lets her knickers obsession get out of control.

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  • Flirt!

    I am a huge flirt. I say this without apology. I pretty much flirt with every one. I flirt with anyone who makes me coffee, with DMV employees, when I dance, with guys, with my best girlfriend, with dogs, kittens, bunnies and babies, but most of all: I flirt with life. I may not have a traditional definition of flirting – but my techniques are extremely effective and I do adhere to strict flirting rules. To me, flirting is not about manipulation, having an agenda or being a home wrecker (I haven’t wrecked a single home!) As I see it, flirting is playful, it turns mundane moments into adventures and it’s my way of saying, “I want you closer.”

    Due to all my flirting research and years of teaching flirting in my Art of Seduction workshops, I am considered a world-renown flirting enthusiast (by moi). Through my studies, I have come believe there is an actual science to flirting. Because of this almost-proven fact, flirting is a skill that can be taught using the following modus operandi:

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  • Lessons we can learn about Sex from the Ultimate Sex Symbol - Marilyn Monroe

    What is the exact cocktail of intoxicating traits that make Marilyn Monroe the ultimate sex symbol? And why do these attributes preserve her status as a sexual icon remarkably 50 years after her passing?

    Did she possess a sexy body? Absolutely. Were some of the world’s most powerful & fascinating men seduced by her? Definitely. Was she beautiful? Without question.

    But we could give precisely the identical answers about hundreds of famously sexy women. What makes Marilyn in a league all her own? And what unique lessons can we learn from the immortal sex Goddess that we can apply to our own lives?


    Click here to read entire blog & learn Marilyn Sexy Secrets!

    Click here to order her only autobiography & my favorite book about MM (in Kindle or Hardcover)


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