Fall IN LOVE with Life this Valentine's Day and let's bring sexy back!

Fall IN LOVE with Life this Valentine's Day and let's bring sexy back!

While I was at my favorite coffee shop this morning, I meandered around the store looking at all the Valentine’s Day gifts they had for sale. What happened next was so utterly mystifying, that I let my café mocha become cold and had to order another. Let me first preface this with: I am a huge fan of gifts. If it’s wrapped in a bow, even an empty box is irresistible to me. This said, I was bewildered by the fact that I wouldn’t want to receive any of these things for sale at the coffee shop as presents for Valentine’s Day. Yes, they were so over-the-top saccharine sweet that I got a cavity just looking at them. But that’s what Valentine’s Day is all about. Or is it?

I frankly think Valentine’s Day has lost its lust. Of course, teddy bears are cute for the kiddies, but why should adults celebrate love in the same way? J’adore celebrating love, but I believe love comes in all sorts of yummy flavors and for grown-ups a delicious one is sexy. I personally cannot imagine a better way to observe this day than to bring out the sexier side of yourself.

Let’s reclaim the glory days of ancient Rome, when Valentine’s Day was a joyous holiday for all Goddesses – married, maiden or virgin. It’s all about you learning to own and enjoy your sexuality. This is what I teach women in what I call “The Art of Seduction” workshops. When I advise women to wear pretty lingerie – I enlighten them that this should be for YOU – to feel more feminine, confident and to enjoy your body. You should not do it exclusively for a partner (though they will take pleasure in receiving the benefits). The things I teach will show you how to be IN LOVE WITH LIFE! The French call it ‘joie de vivre’ and let me tell you, nothing is more attractive.

Whether you have a partner or are a sexy single this Valentine’s Day, let this be a time to be IN LOVE WITH LIFE! And let’s bring sexy back!

4 comments (Add your own)

1. Nicole Carpenter wrote:
You have really hit the mark on what it means to be in love with life. Great blog post, Ms Dolphina.

Tue, February 1, 2011 @ 7:38 PM

2. Alexa Laurie wrote:
Thanks Dolphina, you are so right, and it feels better just to read what you say...Happy Valentine's day!

Mon, February 14, 2011 @ 7:29 PM

3. LoreleiSirenPixie wrote:
I have just signed up to your blog and this post is just what I needed to hear! I'm going to see my long-distance partner on the Gold Coast of Queensland (Australia) next weekend, (I live in Sydney). I bought your Veils DVD & some beautiful lingerie, and I have been having the most fun just practicing the moves and adding my own to the routine. I can't wait to show him, not just for him, but because since I have been doing this workout, I feel as though the confidence that it makes me feel when I do it, is radiating into other aspects of my life! :)

Thank you for creating these wonderful products and writing this blog! It has inspired me to do your certification training to share this beauty and confidence with other women :)

Fri, March 18, 2011 @ 10:38 PM

4. Bubi wrote:
At last some rationality in our lttile debate.

Tue, December 20, 2011 @ 11:09 AM

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