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  • Be Yours & Have the BEST Valentine's Day of your life!

    Decide right now, no matter what your current relationship status is, that you will first and foremost ‘Be Your Valentine’ on February 14th. I will bet my bottom :) this mindset will change this holiday forever. And for the better.

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  • Guilty Pleasures

    As my phone rang tonight, I found myself saying those nasty four little words, “ I really shouldn’t, but…”

    You see, I have a vintage pink rotary phone that’s cord only reaches the fake fur rug on the floor next to it.  To speak on the phone, I have to lie on the rug. It’s decadent in The Valley of the Dolls kind of way. I knew it was my best girlfriend calling and with all the work I had to do, I really shouldn’t have, but… I indulged in one of my favorite guilty pleasures and talked to my friend, on the rug (meaning, no multitasking) for two hours!

    Afterwards, I didn’t care how behind I was on my spreadsheets I was supposed to have prepared for tomorrow. “So what” I said to myself, I can stay up late, or get up early, or, even *gasp* not finish them.  Indulging in my guilty pleasure made me feel so bad, I felt good.

    We all have guilty pleasures – some that would embarrass us to admit – but should we feel compunction about them? If watching trashy TV shows, eating at fast food restaurants or googling your ex can bring us so much pleasure, then why should it create remorse?

    Isn’t it tiring trying to be perfect and to always do the right thing? Isn’t there something to be said for the occasional dash of depravity? There is! Not everything we do needs to be productive, lead to a cleaner house or the betterment of humanity. In actually, doing something for the sheer amusement of it is reason enough.

    So, go ahead, eat a gram or two of saturated fat, crank up that cheesy love ballad on your car radio and splurge on something ridiculously expensive.  And remember, sometimes, tabletops are for dancing.

  • Flirt!

    I am a huge flirt. I say this without apology. I pretty much flirt with every one. I flirt with anyone who makes me coffee, with DMV employees, when I dance, with guys, with my best girlfriend, with dogs, kittens, bunnies and babies, but most of all: I flirt with life. I may not have a traditional definition of flirting – but my techniques are extremely effective and I do adhere to strict flirting rules. To me, flirting is not about manipulation, having an agenda or being a home wrecker (I haven’t wrecked a single home!) As I see it, flirting is playful, it turns mundane moments into adventures and it’s my way of saying, “I want you closer.”

    Due to all my flirting research and years of teaching flirting in my Art of Seduction workshops, I am considered a world-renown flirting enthusiast (by moi). Through my studies, I have come believe there is an actual science to flirting. Because of this almost-proven fact, flirting is a skill that can be taught using the following modus operandi:

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  • Two Valentine's Day Music Playlists: Valentine's mix sexuelle and L'amour Romantique

    Dearest GoddessLife Sisterhood,

    In my quest to squeeze sexy back into Valentine's Day, I created this uber-sexy music playlist on Spotify. No romance. It's over 4 hours! Have fun xxx 

    Playlist One : Valentine's mix sexuelle

    What are your favorite sexy songs?

    While I was on my mission of making Valentine's more sexy, my darn heart got in the way. The next thing I knew, I making a romantic playlist, too. Cie la vie!

    Playlist Two: L'amour Romantique Valentine 

    What are your favorite love songs?

    What are your favorite sexy songs?

    While I was on my mission of making Valentine's more sexy, my darn heart got in the way. The next thing I knew, I making a romantic playlist, too. Cie la vie!

    Playlist Two: L'amour Romantique Valentine

    What are your favorite love songs?

  • Fall IN LOVE with Life this Valentine's Day and let's bring sexy back!

    While I was at my favorite coffee shop this morning, I meandered around the store looking at all the Valentine’s Day gifts they had for sale. What happened next was so utterly mystifying, that I let my café mocha become cold and had to order another. Let me first preface this with: I am a huge fan of gifts. If it’s wrapped in a bow, even an empty box is irresistible to me. This said, I was bewildered by the fact that I wouldn’t want to receive any of these things for sale at the coffee shop as presents for Valentine’s Day. Yes, they were so over-the-top saccharine sweet that I got a cavity just looking at them. But that’s what Valentine’s Day is all about. Or is it?

     

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  • Fall in Love with Life this Valentine's Day

    I’ve been on every end of Valentine’s Day – in love, in unrequited love, broken-hearted, single & sexy, single & lonely and performing in a restaurant filled with couples trying desperately to have the most romantic evening of their lives. And collecting the cumulative experiences into one well-rounded observation, I conclude that there is one definitive attitude to have on Valentine’s Day. Be Yours.

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  • Two Valentine's Day Music Playlists: Valentine's mix sexuelle and L'amour Romantique

    Playlist One: Valentine's mix sexuelle
    In my quest to squeeze sexy back into Valentine's Day, I created this mix.  What are your favorite sexy songs?

    Playlist Two: L'amour Romantique Valentine

    While I was on my mission of making Valentine's more sexy, my darn heart got in the way. The next thing I knew, I making a romantic playlist, too. Cie la vie! What are your favorite love songs?

    Click here to read entire blog & listen/download playlist . Enjoy xo

  • GoddessLife Favorite Dance Video Thursdays - most romantic dance performance

    "When you are dancing, it's a love affair, between you and your partner and the music."- Frankie Manning

    In celebration of how profound dance has enriched my life, each Thursday I post a GoddessLife Dance Video of the Week. Enjoy and keep dancing!

    For upcoming Valentine's Day, this week I chose the most heavenly romantic dance performance I have ever seen. This dance number with Cyd Charisse and Gene Kelly is overshadowed by the many other famous scenes in the movie, "Singing in the Rain." You can wait a lifetime, but there will never be another dance performance like this: the veil, those legs, the chemistry, the emotion. Divine.

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  • GoddessLife Favorite Dance Video Thursdays - most sensual couples dance performance

    "When you are dancing with your partner, you are in love with each other." - Frankie Manning

    In celebration of how profound dance has enriched my life, each Thursday I post a GoddessLife Dance Video of the Week. Enjoy and keep dancing!

    For upcoming Valentine's Day, this week I chose the most sensual, tantric, kama sutra, erotic couples dance performance I have ever seen. Make no mistake, these dancers are extraordinarily gifted and have technique in spades, but this performance is like watching 100 sex positions in 7 minutes. It is truly mind-blowing that this is from European SYTYCD (so be patient through the introduction). This is a performance not to be missed. Promise.

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